Undertaking a search for senior living is daunting, but there are a number of lessons that we share with you here in this blog. We present 8 tips to make the most of your senior living search, and avoid costly mistakes. We had to learn the hard way, and that is why we started this business in the first place! Use GoldenSHERPA to ensure a quality search process.

1. Understand the cost of care

Understand the proper level of care your loved one needs. Instead of assisted living, it might be less expensive to live in an independent retirement community and hire a home health aide to help with day-to-day needs. If a senior is seeking assisted living, get an assessment done by the nurse of each community you’re looking at because they will put together a specific price plan for the level of care you need.

2. Understand the monthly price of a community

Compare costs from different communities and what is included in the monthly price for each one. The amenities are different with each one, so understand what you get for that monthly rate. Some may include amenities like meals, weekly housekeeping, and laundry services while other facilities charge extra for services like these. Be sure to ask about the base rate and what it includes, and what the costs are for different levels of service.

3. Ask about the cost of different sizes of apartments (even if they are not currently available)

Think about the size of apartment you really need. You might not need a 2-bedroom apartment. If you can downsize to a 1-bedroom or studio apartment the savings will be significant on a month-to-month basis. Consider how you can use the many common areas available in the community instead of paying extra for a larger apartment.

4. Find out about additional fees

Many communities charge a deposit, an entrance fee, or a community fee. This is a one-time fee that varies according to the market and is usually non-refundable. Make sure you read the small print and understand what these fees are and whether or not they are refundable.

5. Ask about incentives and specials

You should always ask if there are incentives or specials. There are different incentives that marketing directors offer, and a lot of them aren’t advertised. For instance, they may waive the entrance fee or community fee, offer a month’s rent for free, or pay for moving or downsize costs. Also, some assisted living communities have a limited number of Medicaid apartments available for those residents who outlast their funds or who have limited financial resources to begin with. Go talk to people and find out what it does take to qualify for Medicaid.. Find out what those limits are, because it’s going to help you understand what you need to do.

6. Plan ahead

Don’t wait until you’re desperate and have limited options. Compare facilities, and get on waiting lists if they are available. Read online reviews and talk to as many people as possible. Another great option: Try it before you buy it — ask to do a trial stay in a community. Talk to residents and staff during the visit to see what they’re like. You can learn a lot about the community that way.

7. Locate and tour a model community for each type of senior living

A “Model Community” will give you a basis for comparison of all other communities in that category. It is worth the time to personally visit at least one model of each of the following categories:

  • Independent Living
  • Assisted Living
  • Skilled Nursing
  • Adult Family Home
  • Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC)

8. Get help from an advisor

Whether it’s someone you know who has looked for senior care before, or a professional senior advisor like those at CarePatrol, getting advice from someone with recent experience in looking for senior living can be invaluable, especially if they’re familiar with the various options in your area and can explain them to you. A financial advisor can also be a great help in planning ahead for the cost of senior care.

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Brookdale Nine Mile is a dedicated memory care community in Spokane offering personalized support for individuals living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.

Bridge Pace Adult Family Home

Bridge Pace AFH has private rooms, beautiful garden spaces, engaging activities, and comprehensive support services. Residents can enjoy a high quality of life while feeling truly at home.

Blessful Care Adult Family Home

Blessful Care AFH is a beautiful warm adult family home situated in a comfortable residential neighborhood in Federal Way, WA.

Nari Adult Family Home

Nari AFH, brings over 18 years of experience in caregiving and developmental disabilities to Spokane, WA.

Edan Adult Family Home

EDAN Adult Family Home offers a thoughtful, inclusive approach to care—supporting residents’ physical, mental, and social well-being in a warm, home-like setting.

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Known for combining professional medical support with genuine compassion, Cornerstone Court Assisted Living provides a dignified, supportive environment for residents requiring elevated levels of care.

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Established in 1997, Fairview Assisted Living has served the Spokane area for over 25 years. Their community offers a warm, supportive environment for seniors, with many specialized care options.

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A.J.A.N is a full-service Adult Family Home in Kennewick, WA, offering full time personal care to DDA clients, clients with dementia, and clients needing long-term skilled nursing services.

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Yol's Oasis offers a calm, restorative environment—an oasis where residents can feel safe, supported, and truly at ease.

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Just west of Spokane, Precious Healthcare specialize in serving residents living with dementia, mental health conditions, and diabetes. 

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Whether your loved one needs memory support, hospice care, or assistance with daily living, Alpine Care ensures they receive thoughtful attention—every hour of the day.

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Located in a peaceful residential neighborhood in Spokane Valley, Allen Adult Family Care Home has been providing expert senior care for over 30 years. This multi-generational home offers private, stair-free rooms and a setting that feels like family from the moment you arrive

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